вторник, 2 октября 2012 г.

Happy relation can't be complicated one.

     How can you describe your feelings, when you say: "I'm happy"?.. Soaring, loving, tender, exited, full of energy to change the world?.. and maybe many other words can be used to describe this state of mind. For everybody they will be different, nevertheless all of them describe the same feeling.
     First word, that comes in my mind when I feel me happy is "ease".Why? Because in this moment I noted special sentiment as I can do everything, even to fly. It means that this sentiment makes me feel free and open-mind, it offers me the power to do what I want, it clarifies all the processes and it inspires me to bring love and positive emotions to people around me without big expectations to receive  back the same feelings from them .
  Moreover, when people talk about strength relation, which everybody associates with "HAPPY END", complicated relations don't have place to exist. They should be easy and clear. Do you agree? As for me, I am sure 100% that health relations should be unsophisticated. Why? Because you have to build a family, rise up children, educate them, share all your pleasant and unpleasant experiences, find a support in each other when you have difficult moments, etc. So, can you imagine this kind of  relationship with the person who doesn't know  exactly what she/ he wants, doesn't trust you , who always f*cks your mind finally?.. I can't! 
    Today a lot of young people blind  eye to the something that they don't like  in relation, they don't discuss all this issues with their partner. Maybe, because somebody is afraid to remain along after it, somebody don't want to recognize  reality, somebody just likes to use this situation in their won  goals. But others try  to have something that actually couldn't belong them, complicating in this way their relation. 
   As example, you want to be with a person that obviously has a potential higher than yours, but you still complain that you want to be just with this person without doing something for increasing your potential ( I mean spiritual one ).The result is very predictable. Stress and depression will be your the best friends.  It's also the same as  you have about 1000 euros in your pocket,  but you are going to buy a lambordgine. So, don't complicate the situation- realize what you can, what you want and what you have to do for having what you want.
     Usually all of us want just one thing: to be happy. So, if you are enough tired of permanent brain-storming find the person, that  you will have trusting unsophisticated  relations, enjoy it and...be happy!

пятница, 21 сентября 2012 г.

     The humankind knows  about 5000 languages, 3000 of them are speaking nowadays. Some of them have been more popular, some of them, of course, less. During last century were really widespread  French, German, Russian, English and may be Chinese starts.
     Today  the most popular language in the world is English obviously. All official and international documents, popular books and songs, software are in English. Even the common language between people from different countries is usually English. So, today people understand significance of studying  this language.
     Now I want to share with you my last experience, that I have had this summer. I took part  in  a project, that was organized by AIESEC Chisinau from Moldova.  About 40 international participants  we had and about 30 countries were involved. All of participants had their accent and won style of speaking, this means that some of them I understood perfectly, but others after 3-5 times discussing (when I started to get used to their accent).
 First part of the project  participant should spent  in villages, where they were divided in small groups.I was as a coordinator of one of that groups and we spent our two weeks in Galeshti village. What I can say?First days seemed to me difficult, because people who deal every step with high technology  and have the most beautiful architecture in their countries, weren't prepared to the conditions of our villages. So, for some of them it was like a cultural shock. Even it I didn't give up and tried to organize every day with a lot of activities and hikes. Our  group had a lot of fun but also work. For example, we picked up the grape, we plowed the land,
 we gathered beans, milked sheep, carried water from the well,  spent one night in a tent  on a lakeside, visited Italian producer of metal vases, organised Gloabal Village, rided a horse, visited  forester and his manufacture of wood-boxes that produces  about 8000 boxes, played ping-pong, billiard, football and volleyball with local team... and also organized parties for locals, where two members of our group were DJs. And these are not all of activities that we did. But the most important part of all of them, that we started to be united and a very friendly team. Of course it happened because I had great persons in my team, of course it was so nice because  a lot of people helped me ( especially my cousin and my parents), but we couldn't ignore the fact, that all these activities, feelings, even friendship depended on our communication. And the common language for all of us was English.
     In conclusion  I want to say, that English can give you more opportunities to develop yourself ( involving in different conferences, projects, activities),  to have a great experience, that you can't forget, to make new friends in all the word! And believe me, that all of them change you and your life "from negative to  positive"!